I have come to realize that every day the Holy Spirit speaks. Sometimes through odd places. I’m hesitant to admit that even through reality television God has spoken to me. But before you tune me out, hear me out first. Reality TV shows have created somewhat of an “unnatural” phenomenon that allows us to see multiple perspectives of one situation at once. Forget about “he said, she said” we get to hear a voice-over of everyone’s true feelings and opinions as the situation unfolds. Even those who are cowardly and smile in their enemy’s presence will be shockingly honest when alone with the camera. Viewers are quick to form opinions and judgments of one’s character or decide how foolish another was to trust the other’s intentions.  The problem is in real life we all have been guilty of trusting the untrustworthy because typically we only get one side of the story. Hindsight is always 20/20 and most times we don’t have the benefit of seeing the whole picture before we make judgments of one’s character. In fact because our mortal selves aren’t all- knowing trust becomes a key element in maintaining relationships. But whether it be in your relationships, your next major life decision, down to what cereal you choose to eat in the morning, there is an “voice over” we can all benefit from in real life that can help us see the bigger picture before we make judgments.  

Often I think we find ourselves praying or searching for answers we already have, at least I do. While looking for a grand “ah-ha” moment that will reveal all truths, I come to realize usually that’s not how this Voice Over speaks, that’s just not His style. Instead in subtle ways He speaks and guides and its up to us to take heed. For me, depending on how favorable the words He speaks are to me determines my willingness to accept these subtle truths. Sometimes I find myself praying for more answers and understanding before acting thus putting myself in harm’s way. There is a quote by Maya Angelou that has always stuck with me, “When people show you who they are believe them”. Maybe the Holy Spirit was speaking to her but she is definitely on to something. I think we waste too much time trying to find “closure” or answers we don’t need. Don’t waste time confronting or holding on to relationships with those who have already shown their true intentions. The Voice over your life has already spoken, take heed!

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6

Paige Henry is a school social worker and independent artist in Detroit, MI. Check out her music at www.sydneyandpaige.com or www.facebook.com/sydneyandpaige.
Twitter: @PaigeAHenry